“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”
– Oprah Winfrey
This seems obvious. Relationship is a team. A Marriage is a team. But often, this is the first thing
that breaks down.
“Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are.” – Houssaye
This may go against everything we’ve been taught about being equal in a relationship. In my model, men and women are equal in relationship – but we freely choose to come at it from different ways.
Many years ago, when I was [...]
When things aren’t going well in a relationship, survival skills get activated. One part of you wants to run,
leave, go to Tahiti, find another man. Though this part can get bold and fearless – which often feels good – it usually only distracts from the real problems and the real solutions.
The other part just wants [...]