Men don’t leave. They do the best they can to stay with the woman they’ve chosen, and only leave when they can’t get what they need.
So what do men need?
They need what women need: love, companionship, all the good stuff you dream of in a relationship. With one difference: Men respond to a woman [...]
“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”
– Ingrid Bergman
How did we get where we are?
Can you remember what it was like the moment you laid eyes on your husband or boyfriend, or last romantic partner?
Were you instantly attracted? Was he?
Trusting your boundaries means you believe in your ability to take care of yourself, to treat yourself well regardless
of how you’re feeling about yourself, and to insist that you be treated well, no matter what your man or the conflicting
voices in your head may be saying to you.
Following your feelings means you focus on [...]
I noticed that I was saying and doing things that were completely destructive to my idea of what a great romance and marriage should be. I was making sure there was no real intimacy, trust and passion in the relationship, and I was
angry with him about it!
For me, information was the missing link. I was successfully working on myself, uncovering old feelings, changing my actions, but I was like a child in some ways. I needed information. I needed a How To. Getting the great relationship I wanted and then keeping it great was like learning a foreign language. I needed [...]
“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.” – Anonymous
I’ve done talk therapy, psychoanalysis, hypnosis, Reichian and Rebirthing bodywork, written many
books, plays and film scripts and even more journals, and participated in some therapy [...]
“The longest journey you will make in your life is from your head to your heart.” – Sioux legend SYNCHRONICITY
Wanting something is essential to getting it.
Once you want something fiercely enough, not only are you more able to figure out how to get it, it seems everyone else on the planet wants it for you [...]
“If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.” – Unknown
First, I want to set the ground rules to save my marriage. What we’re going to be about here is getting you the big ticket items [...]