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IF YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED

Monday, August 17th, 2009

What if Mr. Right-for-You really is out there looking for you? Are you willing to commit to being in a relationship?
We say we are, but are we really? Not wanting to be lonely, or wanting a date for Saturday night isn’t enough to keep a
relationship together.
It’s your decision to share your life with someone [...]

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THROUGH THE WOODS

Sunday, August 16th, 2009

“Into the woods, and who can tell what’s waiting on the journey?
Into the woods and through the fear you have to take the journey…
Into the woods, each time you go, there’s more to learn of what you know…”
– Stephen Sondheim.
Is it really the wayward leaf that’s so upsetting? Or the idea that we are in [...]

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When I started to play free arcade games, I was still very small.

CHOICE AND CONTROL

Sunday, August 16th, 2009

There is power in choice. By not believing we have a choice in any situation we find ourselves in, we’re able to be
confused, feel dread, step in and out of commitments, get angry, disappointed, and create drama and conflict enough to distract us from the fact that we are afraid to choose.
Choice is completely different [...]

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GETTING READY FOR MY MR. RIGHT

Friday, June 26th, 2009

For me, information was the missing link. I was successfully working on myself, uncovering old feelings, changing my actions, but I was like a child in some ways. I needed information. I needed a How To. Getting the great relationship I wanted and then keeping it great was like learning a foreign language. I needed [...]

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FIGURING IT OUT

Friday, June 26th, 2009

“You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.” – Anonymous
I’ve done talk therapy, psychoanalysis, hypnosis, Reichian and Rebirthing bodywork, written many
books, plays and film scripts and even more journals, and participated in some therapy [...]

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RECLAIMING OURSELVES

Thursday, June 25th, 2009

You can visualize this by looking at your entire self as a circle. Put another circle in the center that’s almost as big as the first. The outer layer is what’s conscious, or what you know about yourself. What’s in the deepest circle is the buried treasure – what you don’t know about. The big [...]

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THERE’S MORE TO YOU THAN YOU KNOW

Saturday, May 9th, 2009

“The longest journey you will make in your life is from your head to your heart.” – Sioux legend SYNCHRONICITY
Wanting something is essential to getting it.
Once you want something fiercely enough, not only are you more able to figure out how to get it, it seems everyone else on the planet wants it for you [...]

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Ground rules to save my marriage

Saturday, May 9th, 2009

“If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.” – Unknown
First, I want to set the ground rules to save my marriage. What we’re going to be about here is getting you the big ticket items [...]

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